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Stop Burning Wishes

You do not need to burn down other homes in order to keep your own home standing on a strong foundation. You do not have to crumble peace in the lives of others in order to use their rubble to build peace in yours.

There are individuals and groups doing what they can to stop wishes from coming true for others. If you are someone who has been a roadblock to others so they may not turn their dreams into reality, ask yourself why.  Why do you believe you must create obstacles to prevent certain people from bettering their life? 

 

You do not have to fear the progress of others.  Have enough confidence in yourself where you won't feel the need to spend your time doing what you can to block people from attaining their goals because you fear it will take away from your accomplishments, your capacity to keep living the life you have, or be afraid it will somehow seize your opportunities from improving your life. 

 

Instead of spending your time and energy on destroying others happiness, spend that energy and time on building your trust in your own abilities to keep or create the life you want for yourself.  You do not need to burn down other homes in order to keep your own home standing on a strong foundation. You do not have to crumble peace in the lives of others in order to use their rubble to build peace in yours. You do not have to bind hands, silence lips, or devastate their lives for you to be able to create, speak, or be alive. Stop believing you have to blow out the light in others in order for you to shine. Realize what caused these thoughts to find a place in your mind, finding their way to take over your inner-peace and having you project this inner-battle into an outer war.  In recognition of knowing the source, you are able to defeat it. At that moment you are able to choose what you want to do now.  Do you want to destroy or build?  

You want safety, so does everyone else. You want shelter, so does everyone else. You want happiness, so does everyone else. You want freedom, so does everyone else. You want Luv, so does everyone else.  

 

Your fear and actions taken in regard to your need to stay on top is what is dimming your light. When others shine that is not a threat to you, we can all shine together.  For our lives to be better, we have to be better. For our world to be more at peace, we have to be at peace. For Luv to exist, we have to allow it to live. 


If you or someone you know needs to receive assistance in getting to the root of what has caused your fears, anger, sadness, lack of confidence, lack of love for self and others, emotional pain, and other damaging feelings holding you back from happiness, one on one coaching is available. Transformational tools are provided to replace language and thoughts that block progress to constructive words and beliefs opening you up to your capabilities. Recognize your ability to overcome battles and charge through obstacles. Stop having dreams and pursue goals. Take control of your life to live it for you and not by the expectations of others. Know your worth. Luv yourself. Luv others. Ultimately bring to surface the power, inner strength, and courage you have to be your authentic self.  Contact us for more information.

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Before the World Taught Us

Who were we when entering this world?  Who were we before the world taught us?

Who were we when entering this world?  Who were we before the world taught us?

 

As children we were taught how to speak, walk, tie our shoes, and all other necessary abilities to function in life. During this time we were also absorbing our surroundings, taking in the language and mannerisms of those around us. As we repeated what we heard or saw, our parents/guardians would commend the behavior they accepted or reprimanded the behavior they considered to be unacceptable.   Depending on the treatment we wanted we would choose our conduct accordingly.

 

In addition to our parents we had several other teachers. Everyday we were fed the views of our family, peers, TV shows, movies, videos, music, magazines, books, billboards, and the news.  What part of those views did we take in for our own?  When did we realize if our thoughts are our own or recycled beliefs we were taught. When or how do we know if we are truly being our authentic self?  If we are parents, what are we passing on to our children? If we are leaders what are we passing on to those who trust us?

This is not to say we are completely brainwashed individuals walking around as programmed robots.  We developed our own personalities, have things we like or don't like rather anyone agrees with us or not; and have paths we choose to take whether certain people approve or don't. Don't worry, no one is taking away an identity you built for yourself. Yet, when you start to realize how much you are actually you and how much is a concoction of your teachings, it can really make you think how much of you is you.  

 

This does not have to be a bad thing. Lessons and experiences have shaped us into the people we are today and we have all had our own different journeys. One journey doesn't need to be viewed as better or more right than another.

 

If you realize you are not walking on a path you paved for yourself, then make a conscious choice and effort to construct your own. On your path to waking up to the real you, know that others are walking a path paved for them as well, or they are paving a different road that is more fitting for them. There is not one road that we need to follow. This awareness can minimize the judgments that can turn into fear, anger, and altercations and increase understandings that can turn into peace. 

 

We're in this world together wanting happiness, safety, peace, freedom, and Luv. Know yourself. Be yourself. Luv yourself. Understand others. Coexist with others. Luv others.

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We project what is within, which is why Luv Mrk offers Impacting Perceptions, a transformative workshop to explore our personal views and how these interpretations affect self and relationships with others. Discover how outside influences from our experiences and environment to the media shapes our perceptions which in turn inspire our choices and actions. When we identify the beneficial and/or destructive impact our beliefs have on our lives we can then consciously choose to evolve our approach to the way we treat ourselves and those around us in order to cultivate the peace and Luv we seek in the world.

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Allow Yourself to Have Fun

Release what you cannot control and fix what you can.  You deserve inner-peace.

There is so much going on in the world where life can get you down. Anger and sorrow will not bring a better tomorrow. Allow yourself to feel your emotions to go through the healing process, yet do not stay in the pain and hurt. Release what you cannot control and fix what you can. However, if there is a problem that should not be ignored and it appears to be deeply rooted beyond what you can fix, keep doing what you can, because any steps in improving an issue, get's you to reaching the solution. 

 

In the meantime, you deserve inner-peace.  Allow yourself to release the weight of the world for awhile.  Have fun. Let your heart feel the genuine bellows of laughter and your soul the warmth of a smile.  Take some time to travel into the innocent minds of the youth where earth is a playground, everyday is an adventure, and life is whatever you decide it to be. In this moment you will be in peace.  


If you or someone you know needs to receive assistance in getting to the root of what has caused your fears, anger, sadness, lack of confidence, lack of love for self and others, emotional pain, and other damaging feelings holding you back from happiness, one on one coaching is available. Transformational tools are provided to replace language and thoughts that block progress to constructive words and beliefs opening you up to your capabilities. Recognize your ability to overcome battles and charge through obstacles. Stop having dreams and pursue goals. Take control of your life to live it for you and not by the expectations of others. Know your worth. Luv yourself. Luv others. Ultimately bring to surface the power, inner strength, and courage you have to be your authentic self.  Contact us for more information.

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