Dissolve Your Anchor Retreat

“Awareness is the beginning. Alignment is the choice.”

A 4-Day Luxury Retreat to Release Unhelpful Patterns and Reclaim Clarity and Confidence

Release what’s been weighing on your mind and spirit. This soul-aligned retreat offers practical tools and guided support to explore patterns of thought and behavior, release beliefs and habits that no longer serve you, and cultivate confidence, purpose, and a life of intention and fulfillment.

August 1-4, 2026

Lumeria Maui, a Wellness Retreat Center, 1813 Baldwin Ave, Makawao, HI 96768

Inspired by the book, Dissolving the Anchor: Untethering Dysphoria and Self-Doubt to Create an Empowered Life

“Perfect resource to provide real world advice for quieting those self-limiting beliefs, creating more positive relationships in our lives and ultimately becoming our own superheroes.”

—Valerie Moses, Wellness & Wanderlust Podcast (Review of Dissolving the Anchor)
“Hailima's program helped me reframe what I took in from the world...This was key in breaking down irrational beliefs and has helped curb my urges to hide from my problems.”

— Matt A., Program Participant
“She shares helpful and beautifully expressed words of wisdom...Shifting your mindset is the goal of many therapists.”

— Dr. Kerry-Ann Williams, Psychiatrist, Black Mental Health Matters Podcast (Review of Dissolving the Anchor)
"I would always tell myself negative things like, 'I'm no good, I'll always use drugs.' One thing I learned from you is it's not what people say about me that counts; it's what I say to myself. 'I am strong, confident, I am worthy.' The I Am changed me from the inside out. Thank you for breathing life in me Hailima."

— Shieawen B., Program Participant
"This lady has a great program. Her presentation is profound. I was reacquainted with how important it is to be fully present in every moment. I believe she should be exposed to as many people as possible."

— Michael., Program Participant

What You’ll Experience at Dissolve Your Anchor: 4-Day/3Night Luxury Retreat at Lumeria

Personalized Welcome & Accommodations – Settle into your private room with curated welcome gifts designed to enhance relaxation and reflection.
Intentional Opening Ceremony – Icebreaker, intention-setting, and connection with peers.
Healing Yoga & Mind-Body Practices – Start your day with awareness-based sessions to center, energize, and align your body and mind. (Participation optional)
Interactive Workshops – Identify and release personal anchors, self-doubt, and limiting beliefs through guided exercises and group discussion.
Confidence Development– Build self-trust and turn insight into aligned, purposeful action.
Outdoor Experience – Intentional experiences that incorporate outdoor settings to deepen reflection and clarity.
Reflection Time – Guided reflection to ensure lasting transformation.
Dining Experiences – Three meals daily, featuring an onsite farm-to-table experience and select outings to local, family-owned restaurants.
Integration & Alignment – Leave with clarity, renewed energy, and actionable steps to sustain your elevated self beyond the retreat.

Also included:

Airport pick-up and drop-off

Free time to adventure around the island or to relax on the property at the pool or gardens

Spa services at 15% discount for all retreat attendees

One online group mindset coaching session, one month after the retreat, to check in

NOT included:

Airfare to and from Hawaii

Who This Retreat Is For

Purpose-driven professionals seeking clarity, alignment, and sustainable growth

Business owners, creatives, and leaders ready to reconnect with inner direction and self-trust
Parents, caregivers, educators, and other service-oriented or supportive professionals who give a lot to others, are experiencing burnout, and are ready to reconnect with themselves
Individuals navigating changes in work, relationships, or personal identity, or feeling stuck in patterns that no longer fit
People who want practical tools for emotional, mental, and inner well-being — not quick fixes
People ready to explore and release patterns that no longer serve them
Individuals open to guided reflection, experiential practices, and meaningful integration

This retreat is designed for a group of up to 13 participants.

25 Reflective Anchor Questions

1. What belief about yourself have you been carrying for so long that it feels like a fact?

Self-Perception Anchors
2. When did you first start believing you had to prove your worth?

Self-Perception Anchors
3. Do you trust your own judgment — or do you constantly look for reassurance from others?

Self-Perception Anchors
4. What would change in your life if you truly believed you were enough as you are?

Self-Perception Anchors
5. Have you been living according to who you think you should be rather than who you actually are?

Identity & Expectation Anchors
6. What expectations did you inherit that you never consciously chose?

Identity & Expectation Anchors
7. If you stopped trying to meet everyone else’s expectations, what would your life look like?

Identity & Expectation Anchors
8. What emotion do you find yourself returning to most often — and where might it come from?

Emotional Anchors
9. Do you allow yourself to feel fully, or do you quickly move into fixing and solving?

Emotional Anchors
10. What feeling have you been avoiding that might actually hold an important message?

Emotional Anchors
11. Do you feel responsible for keeping everything together for everyone else?

Control & Safety Anchors
12. What part of your life do you try to control the most — and what might that be protecting you from?

Control & Safety Anchors
13. What would it feel like to not carry everything alone?

Control & Safety Anchors
14. Where in your life do you still question your own capability — even when evidence says otherwise?

Self-Doubt & Capability Anchors
15. How often does your inner critic speak louder than your inner advocate?

Self-Doubt & Capability Anchors
16. What might become possible if self-doubt stopped driving your decisions?

Self-Doubt & Capability Anchors
17. Have you ever noticed yourself repeating the same patterns in different relationships or situations?

Hidden Pattern Anchors
18. What pattern in your life do you recognize but haven’t fully examined yet?

Hidden Pattern Anchors
19. Is there a story you’ve been telling yourself about who you are that may no longer be true?

Hidden Pattern Anchors
20. What belief or fear might be quietly influencing your decisions more than you realize?

Fear Anchors
21. What fear has been shaping your choices without you fully recognizing its influence?

Fear Anchors
22. If fear wasn’t part of the equation, what decision might you make differently today?

Fear Anchors
23. Who might you become if the anchors shaping your thinking were no longer there?

Growth & Possibility
24. When was the last time you paused long enough to truly listen to yourself?

Growth & Possibility
25. What might you discover about yourself if you gave yourself the space to look inward without judgment?

Growth & Possibility

Meet the Facilitator/Host

Hello!

Hailima Yates, CPFS, QBHA, is the CEO and Founder of Luv Mrk, author of Dissolving the Anchor, and a mindset coach with over 20 years of experience facilitating group and individual programs that support personal growth, emotional resilience, self-trust, and values-aligned living. Drawing from both professional expertise and lived experience, she designs and leads evidence-informed workshops and programs that empower individuals to gain insight, release limiting beliefs, cultivate healthier thought patterns, and translate awareness into conscious, aligned action.

Her work guides participants to strengthen self-esteem, interrupt unhelpful patterns, and foster balance across social, emotional, mental, and spiritual areas of well-being—supporting lasting transformation and sustainable personal growth.

Book Your Experience

Accommodations:

Courtyard View Guest Rooms feature lanais with views of a lush, serene courtyard. Choose from a King Bed or Two Queen Beds; or Garden View Guest Rooms feature expansive lanais. Choose from a King Bed or a King Bed with Twin Daybed.

While their property is not fully ADA compliant due to structural limitations, they are committed to providing reasonable accommodations where possible and are happy to discuss alternative arrangements to support access and participation.

The retreat venue does its best to accommodate dietary restrictions, preferences, and allergies. With a small kitchen, many foods are prepared in the same space; however, meals are planned based on the group’s dietary requests whenever possible.

A smoke-free facility.

Amenities:

Luxurious organic linens, interior ceiling fans, air conditioning, lanais with courtyard and garden views, in-room mini refrigerator, complimentary wifi, complimentary hot coffee, tea, and purified water, pool and hot tub, and complimentary parking.

Registration Open Through May 1, 2026

Single Occupancy: $2,800

Double Occupancy: starting at $4,400 or $2,200/person

Includes sessions, materials, activities, meals, and accommodations.

Register today to reconnect with your inner truth.

This retreat is intentionally limited to 13 participants, creating space for depth, meaningful connection, and personalized support throughout the experience.

Single Occupancy

Room images are representative. Each room is unique, and layout, furnishings, or views may vary.

Dissolve Your Anchor Retreat August 1-4, 2026 (Single Occupancy)

$2,800.00

Your Room:

Double Occupancy

Room images are representative. Each room is unique, and layout, furnishings, or views may vary.

Dissolve Your Anchor Retreat August 1-4, 2026 (Double Occupancy)

from $4,400.00

Your Room:

Dissolve Your Anchor Retreat August 1-4, Deposit

from $392.00

Your Room:

14% Deposit with Scheduled Payments

Dissolve Your Anchor Retreat

August 1-4, 2026

“Perfect resource to provide real world advice for quieting those self-limiting beliefs, creating more positive relationships in our lives and ultimately becoming our own superheroes.”

“Hailima's program helped me reframe what I took in from the world...This was key in breaking down irrational beliefs and has helped curb my urges to hide from my problems.”

“She shares helpful and beautifully expressed words of wisdom...Shifting your mindset is the goal of many therapists.”

"This lady has a great program. Her presentation is profound. I was reacquainted with how important it is to be fully present in every moment. I believe she should be exposed to as many people as possible."

What You’ll Experience at Dissolve Your Anchor: 4-Day/3Night Luxury Retreat at Lumeria

Who This Retreat Is For

1. What belief about yourself have you been carrying for so long that it feels like a fact?

2. When did you first start believing you had to prove your worth?

3. Do you trust your own judgment — or do you constantly look for reassurance from others?

4. What would change in your life if you truly believed you were enough as you are?

5. Have you been living according to who you think you should be rather than who you actually are?

6. What expectations did you inherit that you never consciously chose?

7. If you stopped trying to meet everyone else’s expectations, what would your life look like?

8. What emotion do you find yourself returning to most often — and where might it come from?

9. Do you allow yourself to feel fully, or do you quickly move into fixing and solving?

10. What feeling have you been avoiding that might actually hold an important message?

11. Do you feel responsible for keeping everything together for everyone else?

12. What part of your life do you try to control the most — and what might that be protecting you from?

13. What would it feel like to not carry everything alone?

14. Where in your life do you still question your own capability — even when evidence says otherwise?

15. How often does your inner critic speak louder than your inner advocate?

16. What might become possible if self-doubt stopped driving your decisions?

17. Have you ever noticed yourself repeating the same patterns in different relationships or situations?

18. What pattern in your life do you recognize but haven’t fully examined yet?

19. Is there a story you’ve been telling yourself about who you are that may no longer be true?

20. What belief or fear might be quietly influencing your decisions more than you realize?

21. What fear has been shaping your choices without you fully recognizing its influence?

22. If fear wasn’t part of the equation, what decision might you make differently today?

23. Who might you become if the anchors shaping your thinking were no longer there?

24. When was the last time you paused long enough to truly listen to yourself?

25. What might you discover about yourself if you gave yourself the space to look inward without judgment?

Meet the Facilitator/Host

Book Your Experience

Registration Open Through May 1, 2026

Register today to reconnect with your inner truth.

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